Children need love.? Parents need respect.
?It is as simple and complex as that!
When frustrated with an unresponsive child?? a parent doesn??t declare?? ??You don??t love me.?? Instead the parent asserts?? ??You are being disrespectful right now.?? A parent needs to feel respected?? especially during conflicts. When upset a child does not whine?? ??You don??t respect me.?? Instead?? a child pouts?? ??You don??t love me.?? A child needs to feel loved?? especially during disputes.
?But here??s the rub: