Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man give him what he wants and needs and he'll love you forever. But when the myth you've been asked to believe fails to deliverwhen you sense you've been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possiblehow do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for?

In Dear Lover David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions trust and commitment. Written as a collection of letters from a man to his dear lover here is this internationally acclaimed writer's invitation to practice love as a living art as you discover:

• Why your man is always your choiceand how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body heart and spirit
• Sexual essence and the three stages of loving: how to understand your fluctuating capacity to experience divine connection with another
• Knowing when to end a relationship and how to deal with the him-shaped void your absent man leaves behind
• Daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodies devotional trust

Ultimately what every woman wants it to give and receive love fully. Whether youre partnered or alone Dear Lover reveals that your love is the same love that years to open at everybodys heart. You will attract and inspire a man as willing and able to open as you are. Constant yearning is the call to open and give yourself to all as loves offering.

Contents

1. You Are Love
2 . Chocolate Love
3. Yearning Is the Key to Love
4. The Gift of Making Love
5. Spiritual Sexiness
6. Orgasmic Love
7. Love and Fear
8. Your Sexual Essence
9. Your True Heart and Its Shells
10. Offering or Betraying Your Heart
11. The Two-Bodied Play of Love
12. Loving Larger Than Fear
13. Trusting Your Man to Open You
14. You Attract Your Reciprocal
15. Why Men Hold Back
16. Your Force of Attraction
17. Your Man is Your Choice
18. Expressing Pleasure and Hurt
19. Masculine Insensitivity
20. How to Stay Open
21. Opening Beyond an Impasse
22. Ending Relationships and the Him-Shaped Void
23. Three Stages of Loving
24. Love is a Living Art
25. Showing Your Heart??s Light in Public
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